Advocacy

General

 * Don't bother debating with feminists
 * They may or may not be open to alternative viewpoints but it doesn't really matter
 * Bypass them and advocate to people who are yet to commit to one side or the other, the media and politicians
 * Men, because they are the ones at risk now
 * The media, because they still have access to a large audience
 * Politicians because they are the ones who can change the laws

Debating

 * Always take the high ground when debating
 * Stick to the facts
 * If you can't back it up I don't say it
 * Never ever make personal attacks
 * If someone makes a personal attack against you state clearly that they have done this and that it is unacceptable
 * When someone makes a personal attack they are conceding their opponent's point
 * If they could attack the argument on merit they would be better off doing so
 * Better to say nothing than to get personal
 * Remember, undecided people are lurking
 * If you say that someone is wrong you need to back it up, ideally with multiple sources
 * If you are expressing an opinion make it clear that it is an opinion
 * Don't draw parallels between different sorts of discrimination
 * Such comparisons are often very complex and make a poor basis for analogy
 * They can result in the conversation spiralling off-topic
 * Don't give them anything to attack you on except the facts
 * If you make a mistake, admit it, apologise if appropriate and move on

Good

 * Talking about education failing boys (with data)
 * Negating partiarchy
 * Negating rape culture
 * Negating feminist claims to advocate for equality

Bad

 * Claiming hypergamy is proven